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How to Spice Things up in the Bedroom with a Few Tantric Surprises

Spending time in the bedroom with your partner is a beautiful way to reconnect with each other. The time you spend with your partner allows you to deepen your relationship and stay connected while also reducing stress and relaxing your body. If your private time is becoming a matter of routine and has lost some of its spice, try these four tips.

How to Spice Things up in the Bedroom with a Few Tantric Surprises

Try Massage Oils

When in the bedroom with your partner, consider giving each other a massage. Even a simple massage of the palms of the hands, soles of the feet or the shoulders helps to relax tense and tired muscles. Look into massage oils that contain natural and organic ingredients that will give a boost to your energy. For example, citrus essential oil in the massage oil will invigorate the senses.

Use Sex Toys

Sex toys are another way to spice things up in the bedroom. There is a wide variety of toys to try, like those from Adore Me More, but if you are new to the use of toys, consider a simple one. Try a life-like vibrator that offers different levels of stimulation. You could allow your partner to control the stimulation level while you relax and enjoy the experience.

Create a Romantic Atmosphere

You might also want to create a romantic atmosphere in the bedroom. Turn off the bright lights and use a candle or two. If you would prefer consistent rather than flickering lights, use a blue LED bulb instead of an incandescent bulb. These bulbs offer lighting that is easier on the eyes. Play some music that has a good beat to it. Turn off the phones and other devices that could distract you from your partner.

Add Texture to the Experience

Another part of the tantric experience is texture. Update your bed with linens that have a high thread count. Many people find that satin sheets feel exquisite on the skin. Try out a piece or two of male or female lingerie. You could also use silk scarves or feather ticklers to spice things up in your bedroom.

Try one of these tips at a time, and discover which of them is most enjoyable to you and your partner. You could also go all out and use all of these tips at once, regardless of the occasion. Consider taking turns choosing something new to add to your time together in the bedroom. You might be able to surprise your partner and inspire new ways of having fun together.

About the Author

Da Vinci, Editor in Chief of Your Life After 25, has carved out her own position as a “Realistic Optimist,” and modern day Renaissance woman. Your Life After 25 is the women’s magazine for all women, but we put a spin on things and also make sure to embrace life for ladies over 25. Whether you’re 25, 30, 35, 40, 50 or older we have something for you! Your Life After 25 “Believe It Or Not, It Does Go On”

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