When you feel as though your husband or boyfriend is cheating on you, life can be very hard. Losing trust in a partner not only affects the relationship but also your own mental wellbeing. You find yourself constantly thinking and wondering what’s going on, it becomes difficult to focus on work or studies, and you may even struggle when it comes to eating or sleeping because of your concerns.
Naturally, any woman that believes that her husband may be cheating wants to know the answer one way or another. Even though you may get the answer you do not want, it is generally far better to find out rather than to be left in limbo and wondering ‘is he or isn’t he?’. This is why some women will go to great length to try and find out if their partner is cheating and this includes the use of reverse phone numbers.
Checking up on suspicious calls
When men cheat, there are many behavior traits that they may display that could be telltale signs. For instance, they may change passwords on social media accounts, put locks on their mobile phones, start going out with ‘friends’ more often, coming back late or not at all after a night out, or spend a lot of time messaging someone in the knowledge that you cannot see who he is messaging or what he is saying. This can make you lose all trust in him, particularly if he is displaying other signs of cheating on you.
One of the things that you may have noticed is that he has started to make and receive more calls on his mobile phone. Of course, we all receive and make calls on our mobiles but if the number of calls has suddenly rocketed over a short period of time, this could be viewed as suspicious. In addition, you may see him walking off when he is taking or making a call on his mobile. Well, most couples have no problem talking to their friends in front of their partners and it he usually takes calls from friends while you are there, you have to ask yourself why he is suddenly wandering off and taking the call elsewhere.
If you are worried about the calls that your partner is receiving calls and believe that they may be from another woman who he is cheating with, there is something that you can do. First off, ask who was on the phone. He may say that it was his mom, dad, or a friend. If you can then gain access to the phone, you can check on the number that called by using a reverse phone lookup service. This will enable you to see who was calling and therefore determine whether he was telling the truth when you asked him who was on the phone. If he lied, then the situation doesn’t look too good and you will have to make a decision on what you want to do.