Dating isn’t easy. If you’ve been struggling to find a compatible mate, the problem may lie in the stars. To find your best life partner or even aa fun companion, make sure to consider the signs of those that will work best with you.
Watch Your Angles
If you study the Zodiac Sign Wheel, you’ll notice that you’re at angles with some signs and directly opposite just one. For those who feel they truly embody a sign and are looking to balance out their life, finding a partner directly across from you is a great start. For example, the moody and sometimes volatile Scorpio might gain strength from a down to earth Taurus.
That being said, the things that draw you to a mate may not be the same things that draw you to in the early stages of dating. If you’re an independent person who needs their own space, the passionate Cancer might start out fun and turn into a clingy nightmare. Make sure that you define for yourself what you want early in the relationship, and keep your focus on those goals.
Yin and Yang
Dating your opposite can be passionate and exciting, but it’s important that you don’t get swallowed up in the process. For example, the cheerful “let’s get along with everyone” Aquarius might enjoy the natural leadership found while dating a Leo, but the “head of the pack” Leo may turn into a bossy jerk if Aquarius doesn’t stand up for him or herself.
A little pushback can tell you a lot. If Aquarius puts her foot down, how does Leo respond? Sulking, pouting, and stamping off will get tiring. If Leo looks at Aquarius with new respect, this relationship has promise!
Try 60 or 120 Degrees
If you’re really looking for harmony and companionship, avoid your opposite and anyone at 90 degrees from you. For example, careful and detail-oriented Virgo will not have fun planning a trip with the “no, I haven’t packed yet, why?” free-wheeling Sagittarius. We all have our comfort zones, and you can’t drag anyone else out of theirs without some serious discomfort to both parties.
However, Virgo will likely enjoy time in the company of Capricorn at 120 degrees or Cancer at 60 degrees. Do take care, though. Sensitive Cancer will not enjoy too many suggested corrections to their behaviors and habits. Also, fellow workaholic Capricorn might really enjoy your company, but since you’re both inclined to put in long hours, the relationship may wither because you never see each other.
Time Can Help
If you’re an older single, remember that life hands out a lot of lessons. Sensitive and tender Cancer may have toughened up, while Leo the leader may have learned that bossiness is not a positive trait. Of course, you’ll study your daily horoscope, and knowing the sign of your potential love is useful. But if you meet up with the opposite and find that you get along well, it could be that both of you learned what you needed to know to be good and caring partners.
Work for Balance
If you’re an Aries who tends to overpower others with your energy, or maybe spends a lot of time with one or both feet in your mouth, avoid other charm-challenged signs. No matter how much you care, you will stomp all over a sweet-natured Cancer, and Capricorn just won’t put up with you.
The carefully balanced Libra offers many benefits to highly energized Aries. As you learn to respect and appreciate Libra’s balanced approach to life, you can learn how to work a room, put people at their ease, and communicate with more gentleness.
Sex is a very important method of communication between humans. For some signs, things can be said with the body that can’t be expressed in other ways. Again, determine what you expect and make it clear. If you want sexual intensity and fidelity, consider a Scorpio as a partner. If a flirty partner makes you crazy jealous, don’t date a Libra. For those who’ve suffered infidelity in the past, never date a Pisces.
The stars hold a lot of secrets and some great advice. To fully understand your dating options, carefully consider your horoscope and the sign of your potential mate. If you notice habits cropping up that you don’t like, try to understand if they’re inherent, or just part of a particular person. Be honest about what you see, especially with yourself.