4 Essentials For A Perfect Engagement
You’re finally thinking about popping that special question! Congratulations! You’ll be surprised to find out how a question that sounds so simple could be so daunting at the same time. After all, marriage is a big deal. If you feel you’ve found that perfect person to spend the rest of your life with, you want to make sure you create a memorable engagement to cherish for many years. And to make that happen, you can’t ignore some key factors. Here are four essentials of a perfect engagement.
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The right mindset
You may know your partner pretty and are sure about your love for them. But even before shopping for rings and making plans, you need to be certain about your reasons for wanting to tie the knot with them. For example, do you feel pressured to propose because all your friends are getting married? Are you proposing because you feel it’s the only logical thing to do? Are you doing it out of fear of losing your partner if you don’t? Are you being pressured by family members to bring someone home? And speaking about family members, the next point is also essential.
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Your partner’s parents are on your side
It’s crucial to seek your potential parents-in-law’s approval and “blessings” before you pop the question. Yes, it sounds a bit old school, but it’s still a very classy move. It shows your potential in-laws that you respect and appreciate their input and advice and strongly indicates that you value the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. It’s important to remember that your partner’s parents’ thoughts do not automatically reflect those of your partner.
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Both partners are on the same page
Regardless of how much you love your partner, there’s always that niggling doubt that your proposal will draw a rejection. You last want your partner to say no when you get on one knee. So, if you want a perfect engagement, take the time to ensure that you and your partner are on the same page. Sure, you want your proposal to be a surprise, so you may not want to ask your partner directly prematurely. But you can find other ways to ascertain whether your partner wants to marry you.
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Engagement ring
An engagement ring is at the heart of any engagement or proposal. It is the first sign that you’re ready to make that long-term commitment to that one person. So you should put a lot of thought into what ring to buy. Don’t get it twisted; the perfect ring does not necessarily have to be the most expensive one you can find (unless you can easily afford it). The perfect wedding ring should be the one that holds meaning to you and your partner. When it comes to engagements, diamond rings are the most popular choice. But you can choose from other less conventional rings with different designs and stones, so keep this in mind.